The Ten Secrets of love

The First Secret - The Power Of Thought
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Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.




The Second Secret - The Power Of Respect
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You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"



The Third Secret - The Power Of Giving
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If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.



The Fourth Secret - The Power Of Friendship
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To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.



The Fifth Secret - The Power Of Touch
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Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.



The Sixth Secret - The Power Of Letting Go
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If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."



The Seventh Secret - The Power Of Communication
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When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and..why are you waiting?



The Eighth Secret - The Power Of Commitment
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If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.



The Ninth Secret - The Power Of Passion
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Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.



The Tenth Secret - The Power Of Trust
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Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.

The are of making love at your First Night!!!

The Key to a Healthy Sex Life is to have better knowledge about Sex.

Are you in confusion where to begin, what to say, what to show, how to behave?

Here is the answer for all your questions…



Most of you have already done the dirty deed with your new Bride. But here are a few ideas to spice up the wedding night and honeymoon:

Suggest abstaining for a few weeks before the wedding to increase the lust. Have the bedroom decorated before you arrive. We suggest giving the other room key to a bridesmaid who can show up to the room and hour or so before to decorate the room with candles and rose petals that you have previously purchased. It adds a nice touch when entering the room. Don’t forget to carry her in. The day may have been long for you but it was longer for her. You may wish to sleep and consummate (getting down with ill freaky) your new relationship on your honeymoon. Once in the suite the mood may be affected by wedding night jitters. But don’t sweat it. Her feet are killing her from those overpriced shoes, so start by removing her shoes and giving a foot massage. Slowly progress to a full massage accompanied by some soft music.

Nothing sets the mood better then a room filled to the brim with guilty pleasures. Prior to the wedding night or the first night of the honeymoon, consider picking up a few items to set the tone for a romantic evening:

• Chocolates
• Fruit
• Champagne or Wine
• Rose petals
• Scented candles
• Music

The idea is to create an environment that will cater to all her senses. Here are a few suggestions on what to decorate the room with:

Rose petals and Exotic flowers
- Most florists will have small bags of fresh roses petals for purchase that will last several days. Spread them along the floor leading from the door to the bed. Lay them out on the bed as well. Consider a few bouquets of roses or some more exotic flowers such as orchids, violets or lilies.

Scented Candles
• You can find them at finer department stores or specialty shops. Choose several different sizes of candles of the same color preferably white or ivory to group together around the room. Don’t forget to put a few near the tub for that romantic bubble bath for two.

• You can never have too many in the room…unless it becomes a fire hazard. Place the candles on red construction paper to prevent having to scrape the wax off the furniture. Never fall asleep with the candles on and don’t blow them all out at the same time as the fire alarm may go off!!!

• Don’t forget to purchase a lighter


Chocolate:
• All women love chocolate, especially Godiva Chocolate. Select her personal favorites at www.godiva.com


Music:
• Music can definitely set the mood for a romantic evening. Consider making a mixed CD.

TheGroomGuide.com recommended song selections:

• Marvin Gaye- Let’s Get It On
• Chris Issac - Never Fall In Love
• Sam Cook - (A Pitiful Romantic)
• Stevie Wonder (Underrated)
• Sade- Cherish the Love
• Barry White (The Chocolate Love Bear)
• Billie Holiday- (A classic…on the subtle side)

Champagne:
Now is a good time to splurge on the bottle of Cristal.

• Here’s a short list of our personal favorites:

Dom Perignon
Perrier-Jouet
Veuve Clicquot
Or just screw it and go with a bottle of Andre

• Check out the www.wine.com for an extensive selection of fine champagnes and wine.

Fruit: What ever she likes will do. Raspberries and Strawberries, which go great with chocolate, are always a hit.


The Art of Making Love:

Rule #1, take your time! A lot of guys have forgotten how to do this, according to the women we polled. This is a special moment, and special occasions require extra care. Pay attention to this detail, and you will both be rewarded. But be careful not to appear to fake and staged. Be genuine and sincere. Try to convey to your bride that this isn’t just a routine romp in the hay. She is worth the time and effort. A good analogy is eating at an expensive restaurant. You don’t wolf the food down in a single bite. You take the time to enjoy every last morsel; every single course is savored and remembered. Use this analogy and put it to work while you are making love with your new wife.
Start by slowly undressing your new wife out of her gown. Take a moment to enjoy here lingerie that she spent days picking out for you. This can help build up the sexual tension and romance. Tell her how beautiful and sexy she looks. Chances are she’ll be too tired to undress herself anyways. Since both of you are probably exhausted from all the wedding festivities; it might be nice to start off with long warm bath. Add some bath salts/suds and light a few candles. Play some soft music and take time to talk about your wonderful day while you soak in the bubble bath. If you can swing them, scented candles are the best way to go. Lavender scented candles are sure to please both your senses. As far as suds and salts, check out Body Shop or Bath and Body Works for some nice selections. A lot of kissing, touching, and caressing in the tub is highly recommended. The bath will relax both of you, and dissolve any uneasy feelings you might have. It’s also a good way to get romantically energized for the night’s main event. After your bath, put on those soft and fuzzy hotel robes and take some time to indulge in all of the items you have placed inside the bedroom. Sip on the champagne, nibble on some chocolate and fruit, and listen to some music. Toast your love and new life together.
The rest of the night should be pretty self-explanatory from here. But in case you might have forgotten, we’ll give you a quick lesson on where women want to be touched and kissed:

• The Neck

• The Inner thighs (A hot spot for a lot of women. Don’t neglect it.)

• Legs and Feet

• Buttocks (duh)

• Arms (Caressing a women’s arms can leave them at your mercy.)

• Back of the Knees (A neglected hot spot.)

• Breasts (These aren’t toys. Regardless of how big or small they are, make sure you handle them with great care. Don’t grab the nipples like they’re a TV turn-knobs. Nipples are for caressing and kissing. Attend to them with great care.)


For the Virgin in the House:
You are a dying breed. You have waited so long!! The expectations may be high. Not to kill your hopes, but the first time may be not be what you had expected. Don’t worry! It gets a lot better. You have plenty of time to enjoy each other, so take it slow. Don’t try out every move you learned from Ron Jeremy. If you don’t know who Ron Jeremy is, you should rent a few of his movies so you can learn the basics. The key for you is going to be foreplay. If she’s a virgin too, she’s not going to be ready to just go at it. So, start with the foot massage, kiss her neck, and slowly remove her dress. Take a moment to enjoy here lingerie that she spent days picking out for you. Tell her how beautiful and sexy she looks. A lot of virgins will be nervous about what their new bride might think of their performance. Women understand that the pressure can be overwhelming, and usually are just happy to form an intimate bond with their new spouse. If your bride is a virgin as well, then “no worries;” there aren’t any expectations. Chances are she’s concerned about performing for you as well. So, reassure her, make her comfortable and just enjoy exploring together. There is plenty of time to get better at lovemaking, and one of the great things about being a married couple is that you can learn together. Keep in mind that your new wife picked you to her husband for many reasons. Life is a lot more then just sex, and she understands this. Practice makes perfect. But if you are totally freaked out, check out The Better Sex Videos for a little introductory information.

Internet Phishing is like fishing your personal informations!!!

Have you ever seen loggin page asking user name and password again after you entered correct info?

The chances are that you gave away your personal details to someone...

Phishing is like fishing personal details...

Phishing is a new way of getting personal information through fake pages which is most similar to the original page. The victim will enter his/her personal information on the fake page and will end up in big loss like identity theft money loss etc.


How to identify Phishing pages? There are several ways to identify the fake pages.


1. First and for most is to upgrade your browser to the latest one which the service provider offers. Internet Explorer version 7 has the in built capacity to identify the fake page. If you happened to logging to a fake page, the browser will give you a warning message stating that it may be a phishing attempt.


2. Look into the address bar properly. If you check your address bar you will come to know whether it is a fake page or an original page. fake page will not have the correct site address that you tried to log in. The fake pages are normally hosted from a free site hosting pages which will be mentioned in the address bar. but little more advanced hackers will host a website which has the address similar to the targeted site. So it is always better to type in the address of the site to which you have to take a look.


3. Don't follow the links which is in an Email. You should never follow a link in an Email send to you. Always remember that hackers use email as a medium to cary their fake pages to their victims. you may find some wonderful offer from your bank or from your Email provider. Never click the link that contained in that email. Because we may not know if it is a fake page. If you are interested in the add type the address of the site in the address bar and navigate through your site to see if an offer is made by them. If yes apply fr that with confident.


4. Don't provide personal information. Never provide your personal information in any of the social networking sites. Hackers normally target those site to collect the contact of their victims. So beware of phishers and be safe always... and keep watching this space for more useful articles...